Bounce Back: Emotional Intelligence Trait in MBA Essays

Emotional Intelligence MBA Essays Bounce BackYour academic performance is clear with the GPA. GMAT Score maps your English and Math ability on a global competitive scale, but Essays remain the only barometer to measure your Emotional Intelligence. Even though most schools change the essays every year, the questions measure four qualities: Communication, Creativity, Leadership, and Emotional Intelligence.

How you analyze failure, summarize the lessons learned, and explain the comeback reveals a key characteristic of someone with a high emotional intelligence: the ability to bounce back. With the narrative, it becomes clear whether you are faking the comeback or you have genuinely learned the lessons, took a course correction, and finally achieved the objective that seem unassailable in your first attempt.

1) Context

Without a context, the narrative as to how you overcame a challenge is uninspiring. Context explains the difficulty of the task. Did the task require you to learn fast, make quick decisions, and coordinate with team members of different temperament? How was the group dynamics? Was the management interfering in your decisions? Set a clear picture on the environment, the timeline, the deadline, and the opposing forces that interfered in your decision-making and implementation. Rarely will you have a task that is devoid of any opposition, either with forces within yourself or your environment.

2) Time Period

The fake comeback stories try to replicate the timelines of movies where you are given another opportunity immediately after a failure; something that rarely happens in real life. Most likely, you will lose the leadership position or would be in-charge of a lower prioritized project. Convey your frustration in the essays, and explain how you overcame the negative emotions with positive reinforcement, or by reliving moments of success before the failed project.

3) Intelligent Questions

It is a challenge to come out of a slump if you don’t ask intelligent, balanced questions. Most professionals blame the failure on their personal shortcomings. Individuals with a higher emotional intelligence show signs of disappointment but they are quick to ask intelligent questions. Did I lack the core skills? Did I communicate poorly with the team? Did I misread the reaction of my team? Were they overworked? Did I fail to listen to my team? Have I failed to anticipate a critical factor? If you have the answer to one of the questions in detail, and to other questions in a short form, you know where you are lacking. For applicants with high emotional intelligence, after figuring out the cause, they focus on motivating themselves back to the old self.

4) Self-Motivation

Business Schools need management professionals who don’t wither under high pressure, and lose focus when the chips are down. They want the self-motivating candidates who look at their failure holistically and ask questions that pick them up. Most professionals with high emotional intelligence explicitly ask themselves about the lessons learned: what lessons have I learned from the failure? For one, they will use the lessons learned for future challenges, but more importantly, they are gaining closure on a period of their life that seem the least satisfying.

Your way of self-motivation need not be in a question format. You can explain techniques that have worked for you. Some use incentives to work hard (two movies back to back after completing a tough task) while some count their successes and note it down in their line of sight (in front of their desk or as a desktop background). The most effective professionals divide their major goals into small chunks of achievable tasks and focus only on the small tasks that can add up and eventually achieve their major goals. Whatever be your strategy, give an insight into how you motivate yourself after a failure. The admissions team wants to learn how you react to failure. If meditation has helped you to focus on the present, share how you applied meditation techniques to motivate yourself.

5) Action

Eventually, it is all about action. Candidates with higher emotional intelligence have a bias towards action: any action. The ones, who spend the majority of their time analyzing their failure, and noting them down, rarely achieve anything spectacular. The action-oriented professional will spend 20% of their time on analysis, and 80% on actions. They know that from the hundreds of missteps, one-step will lead them to their goals. The creative applicants know that out of the box thinking never translates to anything substantial if concrete actions do not follow the thought. Explain how your focus on action has helped you bounce back.

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+Harvard MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    Sample MBA Essay – Gratitude & Giving Back   
    Sample MBA Essay – Entrepreneurship (Influence of Childhood)   

MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    Sample Essay A
+ Chicago Booth MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
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    #2. Teamwork and Individual Ambition   
    #3. Adventure   
    #4. Diversity = Creativity   
    #5. Classroom Experience   
    #6. Harper Center   

+ Columbia MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample MBA Essay – Most Passionate About   
     Sample MBA Essay – Free Day   

+ MIT Sloan MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample Cover Letter
+ Kellogg MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample Essay - Leadership and Challenges   
     Sample Essay - How you have grown and intend to grow   

+ Insead MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
   Sample Essay 1: Candid Description, Strengths & Weaknesses
    Sample Essay 2: Achievements and Failures
    Sample Essay 3: Extra-Curricular and How enriched you are

MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample MBA Essay: Non-Profit   
     Sample MBA Essay: Technology   
     Sample MBA Essay: Marketing   
     Sample MBA Essay: Getting Fired   
     Sample MBA Essay: Diverse and Inclusive Culture   
     Sample MBA Essay: Leadership   
     Sample MBA Essay: Post-MBA Goal & How Pre-MBA Experience will help  
+ Yale SOM MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample MBA Essay – Investment Banker
     Sample MBA Essay - Consultant  
     Sample MBA Essay - Technologist  
     Sample MBA Essay - Marketer  
     Sample MBA Essay - Entrepreneur  
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    Sample MBA Essay: Finance Professional who was a former member of a rock band   
    Sample MBA Essay: Technologist (Idea to Action)   
    Sample MBA Essay: Creative Marketing (Idea to Action)   
    Sample MBA Essay: Consulting (Made a Difference)   
    Sample MBA Essay: Losing a Client (Resilience)   
    Sample MBA Essay: Finance to Marketing (extra-curricular)   
    Sample MBA Essay: I am Aware that I am different   
    Sample MBA Essay: I find it Challenging when People   
    Sample MBA Essay: A valuable thing I have taught someone   
    Sample Essay – Part 2 (Short-term & Long-Term Goals, skills relevant to your career goals and how Ross  
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+ Wharton MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    8 Professional Gains

London Business School
MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    London as the Financial Hub   
    London as the Technology Hub   
    London as the Consulting Hub   
    How to Cite the Curriculum (Example)   
    Sample LBS MBA Essay: Post-MBA Goals - How Prior Experience & LBS MBA will contribute (486   
+ Darden MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    Case Study Method   
    What is valued at Darden?
    Framework for Answering the Darden Essay Question   
    Sample Darden Essay: When your opinion evolved through discussions (499 Words)

+ Duke Fuqua MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
    Framework for Answering the Duke Fuqua Short-Answer Essay Questions   
    Sample Short-term Goals Essay – Technology to Consulting (100 Words)   
    Sample Long-term Goals Essay – Consulting for Government (100 Words)   
    Sample Long-term Goals Essay – Plan B (89 Words)   
    Framework for Answering the Duke Fuqua 25 Random Things   
    Sample Duke Fuqua Essay: The Fuqua community and you (Max 2 Pages)  
+ NYU Stern MBA Essay Tips (2018 Entering Class)
     Sample NYU Stern Essay 1: Goals (498 Words)    
     Essay 3:  Personal Expression (a.k.a. "Pick Six")    
          5 Examples with Images

+ Sample Essays
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+ Leadership Narratives
+ Review Tips
+ Persuasion Strategies
+ The Secret to "unleashing" your unique voice
+ How to write about your Strengths
+ How to write about your Weaknesses

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